Impamvu zishobora gutuma abasore n'inkumi batinda gushaka ngo bubake umuryango.

Mu bihe bya none, abasore n'inkumi benshi basigaye batinda gufata icyemezo cyo gushaka, kandi ibi bigenda bibangamira imyumvire ya benshi ku bijyanye n'ubuzima bw’umuryango.

Hari impamvu nyinshi zituma abantu batinda gushyira imbere gushaka, rimwe na rimwe zikaba zishingiye ku mibereho yabo, ku rwego rw'ubukungu, ndetse n'ibyo babona muri sosiyete.

Ibibazo by'ubukungu biri mu mpamvu z'ingenzi, abasore n'inkumi benshi bafite impungenge ku bijyanye n'ubukungu bwabo.

Kuba abantu benshi batabona akazi gatuje cyangwa bakagira ubushobozi buke bwo guhangana n'ibibazo by'ubukene, bituma benshi batinya kugira umuryango kuko basaba ubushobozi buhagije kugira ngo babashe kubaho neza.

 Ikindi ni uko abenshi bifuza kuba bafite ibikorwa by’ubucuruzi cyangwa imishinga bakora kugira ngo bategure ejo hazaza habo n’aho bakura amafaranga yo gushyira mu muryango.

Gukora cyane no gutekereza ku mirimo nabyo birashobora gutuma abasore n'inkumi batabona igihe cyo gushyira imbere urukundo.

Abenshi bashyira imbere imyigire n'ubushakashatsi, ndetse bagafata imirimo myinshi kugira ngo bagere ku ntego zabo. Ibi bituma umwanya wo gushaka no gutangira umuryango ubura.

Ikoranabuhanga n'imyidagaduro nabyo biri mu mpamvu zidasibangana. Muri iki gihe, abantu benshi bari mu ngeso yo gukoresha imbuga nkoranyambaga cyangwa kugana mu bikorwa bitandukanye by'imyidagaduro, bigatuma batabona umwanya wo gukurikira ubuzima bw’urukundo mu buryo bw'imyitwarire y’umuryango.

Usanga abasore n'inkumi bashaka kugera ku byishimo bya buri munsi, aho kuba mu rugendo rwo gukora ibyemezo by'ubuzima byagirira inyungu urugo rwabo.

Imyumvire ku rukundo n’umuryango nabyo byahinduye isura. Abenshi bakuranye mu gihe isi irimo impinduka zikomeye, n’aho imyumvire ku mibanire ikaba itandukanye n’uko byahoze mbere.

Hari abasore n’inkumi batinya kuba mu mubano wihariye cyangwa batumva neza inshingano z’umuryango, bakagira impungenge ku buryo urukundo n'umuryango bigenda bibasaba kurenza uko babitekerezaga.

Gutinya inshingano z’urugo, bamwe mu basore batinya gushaka kubera gutinya inshingano z’urugo zirimo kwita ku muryango wawe awushakira ibyo ukeneye byose, gutanga ibisobanuro igihe cyose ku wo bashakanye n’ibindi.

Ngo hari abasore bagira ubwoba bw’izo nshingano bakaba baretse gushaka kugira ngo badahura n’ibyo bibazo bityo bakinjira mu myaka 40.

Igihe kiragera bakarongora kubera igitutu cy’abantu ahanini kubera ko gushaka bisa nk’itegeko ry’umuryango, aho utarashatse afatwa nk’umuntu wayobye.

Mu ncamake, ibi byose byerekana ko abasore n'inkumi batinda gushaka kubera impamvu zishingiye ku mibereho, ku bukungu, ku ikoranabuhanga, ndetse no ku myumvire mishya ku mibanire.

Izi mpamvu zikomeye zishobora gutuma abantu bagira impungenge cyangwa batitangira gushyira imbere ibijyanye no kubaka urugo.

Nsengimana Donatien.