Gufasha mu kwisuzumisha no gukingira: Inshingano z'abagabo mu kubungabunga ubuzima bw'abagore.

Mu muryango nyarwanda, umugabo akenshi afatwa nk’umuyobozi w’ingenzi, kandi afite inshingano nyinshi zo guharanira ubuzima bwiza bw’umuryango. Ariko, rimwe na rimwe, abagabo bamwe barenganya inshingano zabo, ntibagire uruhare mu kubungabunga ubuzima bw’abagore babo, cyane cyane mu bijyanye no kwisuzumisha kubyara no gukingira.

Iyi ni imyumvire idakwiriye kuko kubungabunga ubuzima bw'umugore bigomba kuba inshingano z'umuryango wose, kandi abagabo bagomba kuba abari imbere mu gutanga inkunga mu kubahiriza ubuzima bwabo.

Kwimakaza ubufatanye hagati y'abagore n'abagabo mu kwitabira gahunda z’ubuzima ni intambwe ikomeye mu kugera ku buzima bwiza bw’umuryango.

Ibi bisaba abagabo kugira uruhare mu kumenya akamaro ko gufasha abagore babo mu bijyanye no gukingira ndetse no kwisuzumisha kubyara.

Gukingira abagore ni kimwe mu bikorwa by’ubuzima bwiza, bikaba byagira ingaruka nziza mu gihe umugore cyangwa umwana abasha kwirinda indwara zikomeye, nk’umutwe w’indwara zitandura ndetse n’indwara zifata abagore mu gihe cyo kubyara.

Ibibazo bishingiye ku buzima bw’abagore biba bihangayikishije umuryango kuko bitera ibibazo by’ubuzima ku mugore n'umwana, bityo bikaba byagira ingaruka mbi ku mibereho y’umuryango.

Icyakora, abagabo bashobora kugira uruhare runini mu gukuraho ibyo bibazo, bagatanga ubufasha mu gufasha abagore babo kugana serivisi z’ubuzima. Iyo umugabo yitabiriye gufasha umugore we, nk’umuhererero mu rugendo rw'ubuzima, bituma umugore abasha gufata ibyemezo by’ubuzima byiza.

Gukora ubushakashatsi bwerekana ko abagabo bagira uruhare mu gukangurira abagore babo gusuzumisha kubyara no gukingira, ndetse bagafasha mu gukora gahunda z’ubuzima, birushaho kugabanya ibyago byo kugira indwara n’ibibazo mu gihe cy’ibyiciro byo kubyara.

Muri make, kugira umugabo wubaha umugore we, akamuherekeza ndetse akanamushyigikira mu bikorwa byo kwisuzumisha no gukingira, byongera amahirwe y’ubuzima bwiza ku bagore n’abana.

Ubu ni igihe cyo gutangira impinduka, abagabo bagomba gufasha abagore babo, kandi bakamenya ko kubungabunga ubuzima bw’abagore n’abana ari inshingano zabo.

Ni ngombwa kandi ko abaturage bafashwa kumenya ibyo bikorwa mu buryo bw’ubukangurambaga ku rwego rw’igihugu n’akarere, binyuze mu mashuri, itangazamakuru, ndetse n’imiryango itegamiye kuri leta.

Ubuzima bw’umuryango ni ikintu cy'ingenzi, kandi kugira umugabo wubaha umugore we ni intambwe ikomeye mu kurinda no guteza imbere imibereho myiza. Gukora ibi bikorwa byiza byo gufasha abagore kwisuzumisha no gukingira si igikorwa cy’umugore gusa, ahubwo ni inshingano z’umuryango wose.

Mu kubikora, abagabo bazaba bageza imbere iterambere ry’umuryango n’igihugu muri rusange.